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Kinky4Play a.k.a. Love, Sex & Kink
learning and exploring workshops
P3 Workshop: Practice, Play & Pleasure
Connecting with yourself and like minded peeps!

A different SEXY topic to awaken the adventurous in you.

LadyViktoria and Special Guests

Saturday or Sunday
and an irregular weekday here an there

WHERE in Toronto?
Private Studio West North Toronto
Coordinates and details are given to workshop registrants

$30pp for regular workshop topic
$40pp or more for Special Topic or Guest
Pay by cash or e-transfer or credit card.

Coordinates and details are given to workshop registrants
Registration is REQUIRED as space is limited.
Register: or 416-887-5621
Please Note: On the day of the workshop registration is by telephone as the studio space is being prepared for the workshop.

All our workshops are Fragrance Free Zones as we are in a group space to warmly welcome those with  physical sensitivities. This means no colognes or perfumes please. Essential Oils dabs are fine.
~ Thank you for supporting our community of beautiful shiny beings.


The small intimate group workshops in a private studio are all about adventurous adult “play” time. The workshops have been designed as an alternative to the lecture and theory style of workshops.  A different kinky, BDSM and/or fetish, topic including areas of relationships, connection, sensuality, sexuality and psychology will be presented. In this forum your invited to journey within your boundaries of safety, consent and comfort levels, as a participant you are given the opportunity to discover, learn and explore new found wisdom or for the seasoned player a different perspective, through the experiential learning “P3” workshop principles of Practice, Play, Pleasure (P3) and  Connection with yourself and others with mindful awareness, respect, honour and trust.

Adult playtime was never this much FUN! Resonating the kinky philosophy of  “safe, sane, consensual and risk aware”. To further simplify; mindfully aware and always within the boundaries of your safety, consent and comfort levels for self and for others. Please keep in mind that observing is also participating within your comfort levels. You are invited to participate in whatever ways you feel comfortable, because this is the kind of community that is absolutely accepting of all beings and their kinks, and interests. Connecting with yourself and others who share an enthusiastic adventurous zest for life!

The workshops are meant to be as hands-on and experiential as possible relative to your desires, needs, boundaries, and readiness to explore your playful erotic adult side through anything from role-playing to rope bondage and things you didn’t know were possible.


P3: WORKSHOP Schedule
Saturday & Sunday
and irregularly on a week night

FEBRUARY ……………..……………………………….

Brain Sex: The Largest Human Sex Organ
and How to SEXpress Yourself 
@ 2:00pm-4:00pm
Sunday, February, 19th

Spanking and Hair Pulling… the Right Way  (1.5hr)
@ 2:00pm-3:30pm
Sunday, February 26th

MARCH ……………..…….…………………………….

The Art of Kinky Collaborative Conversations:
Adventurous Negotiations by Your Design
@ 2:00pm-3:30pm
Sunday, March 19th

Clarity on Kinky Protocol, Ritual, Worship & Service:
Clarity on the 50 Shades of Grey Phenomenon
@ 4:00pm-5:30pm
Sunday, March 19th

APRIL …………………………………………………….

TieMeUp TieMeDown: Sensual Rope Bondage  (1.5hr)
@ 2:00pm-3:3opm
Saturday, April 15th

Female Ejaculation: Fountain of the Goddess (2hr)
@ 2:00pm-3:30pm
Saturday, April 22nd

MAY ……………………………………………………….

Bondassage for the Sens/xual Adventurer (2hr)
@ 2:00pm-4:00pm
Sunday, May 7th

Tactical Tactile Titillation:
The Art of “Pervertibles” Play
@ 2:00pm-3:30pm
Sunday, May 21st

JUNE  ………………………………………………….

Body Lix: Sensual Art of Flogging (1.5hr)
@ 2:00pm-3:30pm
Saturday, June 10th

BDSM & Tantra: How do they Intersect?  (1.5hr)
@ 2:00pm-3:30pm
Saturday, June 24th

JULY  ………………………………………………….

Impact Play: Hands-On Head to Toe(1.5hr)
@ 8:00pm-9:30pm
Friday, July 7th

Fire & Ice: Sensual Sensations Safely  (2hr)
@ 8:00pm-10:00pm
Friday, July 21st


  • Art of Kinky Collaborative Conversations:
    Adventurous Negotiations by Your Design

Set your terms of engagement and share your desires and pleasures in adventurous erotic play by your design with ease and comfort. Get an understanding of how to approach potential play partners. Understand the lingo, etiquette and protocol. Define your limits, identify parameters and set clear boundaries, etc.

Mindfully aware and always within your comfort levels with respect, honour and trust being built with YOURSELF first and then with other(s). Playful, safe, sane, consensual, risk aware and FUN!

  • BDSM & Tantra

Take a journey through the wild erotic and energetic side of Tantra and BDSM. Tantra is to weave light, sound and form together to create an embodied state. BDSM/Adventurous play is an embodied state of arousal weaved through the mind with an emotional connection in tandem.

Learn where the spiritual paths are interwoven and connected. Discover how they are physically different and the same. Explore how these are recognized in play as elements of intellectual excitement, vulnerability and heightened energy while using the body as the vehicle. Join me and experience the two together and apart.

  • BDSM Stages of Magical Metamorphosis

Do you crave deep intimacy in your BDSM/kinky play? This workshop is for you. Join us to discover the language and explore the primordial levels of human desires. Experience the pleasure practices of connection, charged with sensuality, arousing desires that borders on magical metamorphosis. Expand your mindful awareness and always keep to your boundaries of safety, consent, and comfort levels with respect, honour and trust with yourself first and then with others. We will engage in exercises of negotiating terms of engagement through rope play and body lix (the art of flogging). If you have them, bring your rope and floggers.

  • Body Lix: The Art of Sensual Flogging

Body Lix in this case is an expression denoting the art of flogging and how to connect intimately. Learn skills, techniques and tips to wield this extension of yourself with sensual touch or a wicked wallop or a combination within a passionate dance of rhythm, resonance and connection. If you have floggers, please bring them.

  • Bondassage Lovers Experience

Bondassage® Lovers Experience is a 2 hr solid workshop which is about expanding your bedroom repertoire and bringing a high level of intimacy and delight to those you touch. Designed for sensually adventurous individuals and couples.  We provide a tantalizing 2 hours of sensual fun and creativity, designed to enrich your personal sexual play.  Learn how to access your inner Dominant and skillfully excite your partner into sublime surrender by creating safe and comfortable bondage scenarios.

Join us for a tantalizing introduction to Bondassage Lovers Experience.  We’ll introduce the skills and tools needed to create a unique Bondassage experience.  We’ll practice as a group and in partners, using a combination of massage techniques, breath/energy work and body percussion sensation play.

Learn and Explore:

• Negotiated Surrender: Verbal and written boundary setting exercises

• Dialoguing giving and receiving roles

• Sensory Deprivation using blindfolds

• Sensation Play using household pervertibles and typical kink toys

• Massage Techniques on hands/arms for partnered and self-massage

Exercises will first be shown by demonstration, followed with partners and individuals.  Each participant’s personal safety, consent and comfort level will be addressed for each exercise.  Participants may choose who they wish to partner with. Partnering is not necessary to participate in the exercises.

About Bondassage: Bondassage is the ultimate in kinky sensual massage. If you are into bondage, erotic massage or sensual domination, you will want to learn this new wave of erotic massage experience.

Note: We also offer the Bondassage® Lovers Experience 4hr Hands-On Intensive

REMINDER: Registration is REQUIRED!

  • Bottom’s Up: Ass Play

Its all in the title. For those that enjoy giving or receiving something a little bit more in your play.

  •  Brain Sex: Erotic Sexpression

What does your brain and sex have in common? Want to seduce and arouse? Do you want to enhance eroticism and deepen intimacy? Looking to spice up your bedroom repertoire? It’s a well known fact that the brain is the largest sex organ; therefore it has the strongest capacity to make your complacent mediocre or just fine sex into PHENOMINAL SEX!  Get in the driver’s seat and seduce yourself and/or your lover by taking a cerebral drive into the country side feeling the wind in your hair or if you want to change gears go for an adrenaline rush speeding down a long winding road with tight turns. Learn to articulate and express your erotic desires, passions and fantasies. Give yourself permission to discover, explore and experience new territory through creative and fun exercises of the brain that will be shared in written and verbal form.

  • CBT/CVT: Genital Play

Gifts that keep on giving… cock, balls, vulva and clit torture. Oh my! Delve into the up close and personal aspects of genital play with life demos on both male and female structures.

  • Clarity on Protocol, Ritual, Worship & Service

Learn to be clear as to what you want in your D/s dynamics (Dominant or submissive or switch role dynamics). Also known as power exchange dynamics. You may want to play within each role to see what fits for you.

Discover, explore, and experience the kinky terms of engagement; protocol, ritual, worship and service. Figure what lights you up and puts a smile on your face for days to follow. Identify your desires and what gives you pleasure. Create a more enhanced and fun intimate exchange with yourself or with a partner or with play partner’s. Participate within your playful erotic theatre.

  • DM/PM Play Monitor Training

Play/Dungeon monitor training with scenario practice and full kit display. Get to know the safety aspects and familiarize yourself with safety protocol breach scenarios, how to work as a team, be in stealth mode, identify body language and be able to have a non-verbal conversation while in a most amazing community volunteer role.

  • D/s Dynamics: What is Power Exchange?

Delving into the kinky/BDSM realm creates many questions. Relating to this topic they may be; What role am I comfortable in? How do I figure this out? How much power exchange do I partake or surrender? What are the elements of D/s dynamics? How do I engage in D/s dynamics? What does that look like?

Join us and learn the elements, the ways to better relate to what role resonates with you and how to go about playing with someone to bring that out in you.

  • Corporal Punishment

its all about the erotic side of spanking, paddling and caning of the disciplinary kind.

  • Exploratorium

Guided kinky play stations. That pretty much sums it up. Gives you a chance to try different play activities such as rope, flogging, paddling, flogging, tactile, sensation, etc. Almost like going to the gym!

  • Female Ejaculation: Fountain of the Goddess

Female ejaculation is also known as the fountain of the goddess. Join us and learn where its found. How it is created? Where does it pour forth from? What is the fountain of the goddess? How does one activate the secrets of female pleasures and arousal to engage in resounding release and a showering climax. This is shared through scientific theory and anatomy,  ancient wisdom, covering skills, techniques, and tips and video clip. Self-Inquiry, self-reflection, Q & A, reference materials, and optional suggested  “Homework/Home Play Work”.

  • Fire and Ice: Sensual Sensations Safely

Firing up delicious parts of the body gives a different perspective to turning up the heat of passion within the kinky realm of sensations. The flip side, varying icy cold degrees and textures on a hot summer night or within your heated passion palace lends itself to a different body sense of exhilaration. Join us to learn this advanced form of kinky play within the boundaries of safety, consent and comfort. Also, learn to put together your own fire batons. For those that want their own kit see below the Fire Play Kit List.


  • drop sheet (table cloth/leather/pleather)
  • 2 vessels
  • dish for resting batons
  • rubbing alcohol 70%
  • tea light candles/ short pillar candle
  • taper candles of the paraffin kind (white and colours)
  • small hand towel
  • face towel
  • body towel
  • large bowl/large bucket (for H20)
  • after care aloe vera gel with no alcohol in it
  • moisturizer for sensitive skin
  • small/large blanket

BATON Fire Instrument:

  •   two metal batons made of 100% cotton
  •   two metal rods/fondue lances or forceps
  •   100% cotton gauze roll OR100% cotton fibre (old towel in strips)
  •   butcher’s twine
  • Foot Worship Skills & Techniques

Foot worship also known as foot fetish has many aspects that are expressed erotically and create a connection between the receiver and giver. Join us to learn techniques to soothe, open and bring out the sexiness of the feet before utilizing massage skills to relax and arouse. Bring a friend to receive and 4-6 hand towels. We will supply oils, and other foot care items, and foot basin. REGISTRATION REQUIRED to accommodate everyone.

  • Impact Play: Hands-On Head to Toe

Hands-On Impact Play with the use of the various parts of your body to create impactful impressions upon another body directly or indirectly. Take in the visuals, sounds and excitement. Learn the pleasure possibilities and creative sensations you can engage and play within. Your invited to a workshop of experiential learning and or observational enthusiasm.

  • Interrogation : Role Play

Psychological play with a dash of the physical can be very HOT! Challenging your physical and emotional boundaries in a safe, sane, consensual and risk aware manner is key to a phenomenal play time.

  • Intimate Touch Techniques

Whether giving or receiving its important to note the various forms of touch and how to clearly state intention and connection.

  • Kinky Communication

Also known as kinky bootcamp. We run through the basics; terms, language, know thyself, how to approach potential play partners, etiquette, limits, parameters, boundaries, and negotiation. Stay kinky, my friends.

  • Kinky Connections

Kinky play by any other name would and does feel, taste, touch and smell as sweet. Join us and explore yours, mine and other’s kinky connection(s).

  • Kinky Protocol and Ritual

Reveal your kinky protocol of choice and personal play/relaxation ritual. Create and establish behaviours, procedures, and kinky codes of conduct for personal
pleasure or special occasion.

  • Kinky Self Pleasure

The kinky self pleasure playshop relates to the diverse ways you and or your play partner(s) can initiate your arousal, your pleasure plateaus and possibly, but not necessarily enable you to indulge into a climatic decadence.

  • Medical Role Play: Physical Exam

Role playing within the medical context is for some, a delightful erotic tension builder that makes for an enhanced experience of connection while fulfilling a seductive secret desire. Join us for the closest we can get to an authentic yet kinky experience without being medical practitioners. Learn the elements, tools and skills to create this type of play with live demo on both male and female bodies.

  • Negotiation by Design

Delve into and practice kinky/fantasy/BDSM negotiation by design. Identify and relay your limits, parameters, boundaries, delights, passions and erotic expression with confidence.

  • Pain & Pleasure Balance

Feel what its like to enjoy a power exchange through the visceral balance of pain and pleasure implements. Delight in the creation of your chosen erotic time and space.

  • Pervertibles All Around

Kinky play binds us from childhood. What has changed as an adult? Re-engage or engage the creative side of the brain. Stimulate inspirational thought to action. What are these things we have come to know or will know as “pervertibles” and where do you find them? Join us and learn to creatively flirt, entice and seduce with these said items that are found within easy reach.

  • Predicament Bondage Scenarios

Join us for a night of creative bondage scenarios. Bring things you would like to incorporate and your creative thoughts, fantasies, and enthusiasm!

  • Protocol and Ritual

Join us to learn and understand which works for you best and in what setting. How to create and sustain your choice of protocol and/or ritual.

  • Psychological Edge Play & Pitfalls

Looking to challenge yourself by adding psychological edge play in your kinky repertoire? Join us to better understand the practice of intelligence gathering, trigger responses and what to do, and self-care dialogue with the intention of what would best serve all play-mates/partners involved.

  • Seduction by Voice

Arouse with the use of your voice. Consenting seduction by voice is a skill that can be learned, played and mastered, given the appropriate time, energy and intention. Join us and learn, create, practice and play all out with your voice.

  • Sensual Surrender

To let go and be held within a time and space that brings forth your sensual self and connects you to your primal desires.

  • Sexy Food Play

Food within the kinky BDSM context holds a certain appeal to the sexual appetite. Join us and discover, learn and explore various food play activities. Please bring
3 favourite food items as we would like to accommodate everyone who may have food sensitivities.

  • Spanking & Hair Pulling… the right way

Join us to discover and explore the erogenous zones of spanking and hair pulling. Whether your the giver or receiver. The sensations of sensual and erotic connection that invites an embodied state of bliss. Delight and be open to the diverse possibilities of how this can enrich any adventurous play.

  • Tactical Tactile Titillation: Pervertibles/Body

Different “strokes” for different folks, she says with a mischievous twinkle in her eyes. Let’s begin to discover the possibilities of sensation play with the tools you never leave home without… your entire body. Further, explore the erotic sensations of the body as you continue to practice and play with the diverse possibilities of sensation play with items known as “pervertibles”.

  • Triggers of the Mind, Heart & Body

Its a delicate subject and one of great importance that deserves its own spot light. Triggers come in all shapes and sizes, may they be trauma of varying degrees. Join us to better understand the practice of intelligence gathering of trigger responses and what to do, along with PRO-active dialogue of with the intention of what would best serve all play-mates/partners involved. Connecting with yourself to better connect with others a practice to be shared.

  • Tie Me Up Tie Me Down

Join us for some beginner to intermediate rope ties. As well as learning about the your intention and the texture of rope which can evoke a variety of sensations from a warm embrace, a comforting meditation, a strict discipline, or a ritual of belonging, etc. Practice and share rope play. Please Note: Bring your own rope or you can practice/play with ours.

  • Villains, Victims and Vixens: Role Play

When you were young you played cowboys and Indians or nurse and doctor or battleship with great excitement. What’s changed now that you are an adult? Join us to unlock your hidden villain, victim and or vixen desire. Learn the pieces of the role play puzzle to give you comfort in a defined role, understanding props, skills requirements, interactive verbal and non-verbal ques and much more.

  • Violet Wand

Static electricity is more than just something to watch at the Science Centre. In the kinky realm, its another sensation that is combined with arousal states to create a charged erotic exchange.

  • Worship & Service

Discovery the BDSM and kinky aspects of body worship and explore service with unconditional and/or conditional abandon.



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